Jinxed. Thanks, Mom

Sixteen days ago, my mom asked me how my migraines had been. I answered that they had been much better the past few months but, silently, I groaned. Why did she have to ask me that? I was enjoying only have a few migraines per month but I really didn’t want to talk about it because as soon as I say, or even think about, how I haven’t had something painful for awhile, that something returns.

And, sure enough, the next day I woke up with a migraine. And I woke up with a migraine every day for the next thirteen days after that. The past two days have been kind of iffy as well. I can feel a migraine lurking. All it will take is a trigger to set it off. Unfortunately, pretty much all it takes to trigger a migraine for me is leaving my house. People’s smelly perfumes and laundry detergents, headlights from cars, fluorescent lights in stores and offices and all the movement and reflections from cars on the road is all it takes to trigger my migraines when the potential for one is there.

And even more disappointing than having frequent migraines return, is the kind of migraine they’ve been with the weird visual symptoms and what I call “migraine brain.” I’d rather have just a regular old painful as hell migraine than wacky vision and migraine brain. Seriously, the neurological symptoms are more debilitating than the pain. For awhile I had migraines that hurt all over my body and I was actually relieved to feel that way instead of crazy and completely wacked-out.

When I have migraine brain, I don’t want to talk to anybody or be around anybody because I can’t talk right. I can’t remember anything to tell anyone and I can’t find the right word for things. I’ll say or think three or four different words that start with f-r before coming up with the word freezer, even with that freezer standing right in front of me. I can’t count, I can’t write, I can’t find anything I’m looking for because I can’t remember what I’m looking for while I’m looking for it.

I spent much of the last two years feeling this way.

In 2018, I had 152 days with migraine symptoms. It seemed like even more because I never knew when the migraines were going to hit. I was afraid to drive or sometimes even go anywhere if someone else was driving.

The migraines started to decrease in frequency last August after I started using progesterone cream. Then they decreased more when I started using maca powder.  Since February, when I started a plant-based diet, I had only had very few mild migraines. I thought I’d found the answer.

Nope. Apparently not.


I’m not going to accept that this is my new normal again though. My allergies are really bad right now, so sinus pressure could be triggering the migraines. Also, my neck has felt really messed up for the past couple of weeks, so that could be a cause as well.

I’m working on creating a good tracker for migraine symptoms and I’ll track them and see how I do for the next few weeks. If they continue, it’s back to the doctor to find another horrible medication with awful side effects to try.

I found this … ah, hell, I can’t think of what it’s called but it seems to have a good list of symptoms because I have most of these. Increased need to urinate – who would’ve thought that was a sign of impending migraine? But it explains that night I was up twice during the night to pee. And food cravings – it explains that week I couldn’t think about anything except food!


If I’m doomed to experience frequent migraines again, I can at least make it interesting by studying and tracking it. 🙂


6 thoughts on “Jinxed. Thanks, Mom

  1. I’m sorry your migraines are back. I hear people complain about having migraines all the time, and have always wondered if maybe I’ve ever experienced one without knowing what it was. I’d say probably not looking at that chart of symptoms. I’d had some bad headaches, but nothing debilitating before. Well, maybe the migraine brain symptoms look familiar, though I think that’s a constant part of me…


  2. Your bad headaches could have been migraines. The symptoms are different for everyone and I didn’t notice having of these crazy symptoms back in the good old days when I just had migraines occasionally. I’ve gone through spells when the pain was completely debilitating and other times when there was no pain at all, just visual symptoms. You just never know what “fun” they have in store for you!


  3. I’m sorry your migraines are back with a vengeance, it sounds terrible. I’ve only ever had ocular/retinal migraines and they’re short-lived and painless so no big deal.


  4. Ugh, so sorry to hear that your migraines have returned. 😔 My daughter’s fiance has terrible migraines and recently started using CBD oil to try to keep them at bay, it seems to be helping. Have you ever tried CBS oil for your migraines?


  5. That’s the kind my brother gets too. I went through a phase of painless migraines but the wacky vision symptoms lasted for days so I’m not sure if they were actually ocular/retinal ones or not. It’s so weird how they can be different for everyone.

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  6. I do have some CBD capsules that I’ve been taking every day like a supplement. It seems to help keep the fibromyalgia pain at bay but I don’t think it decreases the frequency of the migraines. I maybe should try a higher dose. I’m glad your daughter’s fiance has found something that helps!


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